How To Tackle Workplace Bullying |
Workplace bullying can be a serious problem. If you are presently concerned about a bullying situation at work, the information below can help you determine a plan of action.
What Is Workplace Bullying?
Workplace bullying is the deliberate, repeated mistreatment of a targeted employee, conducted by one or more persons at the place of work and/or during the course of employment, which creates a risk to the targets' physical and psychological health and threatens the targets' job security.
Workplace bullying is best understood through the bully's behaviors:
While some workplace bullying may involve verbal abuse and physical violence, bullying can also be subtle intimidation with inappropriate comments about personal appearance, constant criticisms, isolation of employees from others, and unrealistic, embarrassing or degrading work demands.
Top 10 workplace bullying behaviors
Source: The Bully At Work, by Gary Namie, Ph.D. and Ruth Namie, Ph.D., Sourcebooks, Inc.
Impact on the targets' health
Each individual will react differently to bullying behavior. It is likely, though, that employees who are bullied will experience some of the following effects:
Seek advice — Seek advice from your grievance officer, safety and health representative, human resources officer or union official. You should not make allegations about bullying behavior or harassment to people who are not involved in the handling of complaints in your workplace.
Keep a record — Make a detailed record of what happened – place, date, time, persons and what was said or done. Ensure that your records are accurate. This information may be useful later, particularly if more formal steps need to be taken.
Approach the bully — If any form of bullying happens to you, make it clear to the bully as soon as possible that the behavior is unwanted and unacceptable, and you won't tolerate it.
If you choose to deal with a situation personally:
If you do not feel comfortable approaching the bully yourself, ask someone else, such as a grievance officer or supervisor, to approach the bully on your behalf, or to mediate or facilitate face-to-face discussions to find an acceptable resolution.
Use more formal procedures — You may wish to lodge a formal written complaint if informal approaches are unsuccessful, or if the allegations are so serious that other approaches are inappropriate.
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Bullies and their targets
The motive common to all bullies is a personal need to control others. Half of all bullies are women. Women bullies target women 84% of the time; men target women 69% of the time, making women the majority of targets in the workplace. The vast majority of bullies (81%) are bosses. Common personality traits of targeted employees: 1). Individuals with a desire to cooperate; 2). Individuals with a non-confrontational interpersonal style.
*SOURCE: Workplace Bullying and Trauma Institute